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by BackInTex » Tue Feb 08, 2022 4:36 pm
Bob Juch wrote: ↑Tue Feb 08, 2022 12:42 pm
I haven't posted about Heather lately. She does have pancreatic cancer; it's inoperable. She just discovered she has a cataract in her left eye (only). The ophthalmologist gave her a COVID test, and the Colorado Department of Health called her Sunday to tell her it was positive. She has no symptoms but has to wait for the operation.
To top all that off, her older daughter, Leanna, was living with a roommate. Leanna's daughter found her in a coma on the kitchen floor from a fentanyl overdose. Leanna was passed out in her car n the garage. Her friends took the roommate to the ER, where she was declared DOA.
Leanna and her boyfriend came to stay with Heather, saying they were freaked out and couldn't stay in the apartment. Leanna said she would stop using and was clean for three weeks. Heather's boyfriend has security cameras all around his house and saw that Leanna and the boyfriend were going out to her car for hours. Heather didn't believe that and got into a physical fight with her boyfriend and had three teeth knocked out. So she, Leanna, and the boyfriend moved back into the apartment. Heather moved many of her belongings there but couldn't move furniture because of snowstorms.
Then Leanna got high and had her friends partying there. Afterward, Heather found all sorts of her stuff missing, including her boss's professional camera gear. She moved back with her boyfriend then discovered that Leanna had taken her large HDTV and Amazon Echo Show. She brought them back a few days later. Heather filed a police report, so some things will probably appear in a pawn shop. She was also questioned about the death and said she thinks Leanna had something to do with it due to her social media postings. Leanna is hiding out somewhere.
So go the days of our lives.
Holy crap!
I had to read that several times because I kept getting the boyfriend characters mixed up. Are you saying Heather got into a fight with her own boyfriend and he knocked out three teeth, and she still moved back in with him?
I really have no words for what you must be feeling, but I'm sorry.
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by Bob Juch » Tue Feb 08, 2022 6:58 pm
BackInTex wrote: ↑Tue Feb 08, 2022 4:36 pm
Bob Juch wrote: ↑Tue Feb 08, 2022 12:42 pm
I haven't posted about Heather lately. She does have pancreatic cancer; it's inoperable. She just discovered she has a cataract in her left eye (only). The ophthalmologist gave her a COVID test, and the Colorado Department of Health called her Sunday to tell her it was positive. She has no symptoms but has to wait for the operation.
To top all that off, her older daughter, Leanna, was living with a roommate. Leanna's daughter found her in a coma on the kitchen floor from a fentanyl overdose. Leanna was passed out in her car n the garage. Her friends took the roommate to the ER, where she was declared DOA.
Leanna and her boyfriend came to stay with Heather, saying they were freaked out and couldn't stay in the apartment. Leanna said she would stop using and was clean for three weeks. Heather's boyfriend has security cameras all around his house and saw that Leanna and the boyfriend were going out to her car for hours. Heather didn't believe that and got into a physical fight with her boyfriend and had three teeth knocked out. So she, Leanna, and the boyfriend moved back into the apartment. Heather moved many of her belongings there but couldn't move furniture because of snowstorms.
Then Leanna got high and had her friends partying there. Afterward, Heather found all sorts of her stuff missing, including her boss's professional camera gear. She moved back with her boyfriend then discovered that Leanna had taken her large HDTV and Amazon Echo Show. She brought them back a few days later. Heather filed a police report, so some things will probably appear in a pawn shop. She was also questioned about the death and said she thinks Leanna had something to do with it due to her social media postings. Leanna is hiding out somewhere.
So go the days of our lives.
Holy crap!
I had to read that several times because I kept getting the boyfriend characters mixed up. Are you saying Heather got into a fight with her own boyfriend, and he knocked out three teeth, and she still moved back in with him?
I really have no words for what you must be feeling, but I'm sorry.
Yes, Heather forgave him because he was drunk. He was drinking two fifths per night. I hope less now.
Thank you.
At least Brittany is doing well. She's a scheduler for a home renovation company in Boulder and now taking care of her 14-year-old son.
I may not have gone where I intended to go, but I think I have ended up where I needed to be.
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Si fractum non sit, noli id reficere.
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by silverscreenselect » Tue Feb 08, 2022 11:25 pm
Bob, I'm so sorry to hear this. I hope you remain strong through all this. Our prayers go out to you.
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by Beebs52 » Wed Feb 09, 2022 10:36 am
Vibes and prayers. Just so hard.
Well, then
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by Bob Juch » Wed Feb 09, 2022 1:06 pm
My shoulders are getting tired.
I may not have gone where I intended to go, but I think I have ended up where I needed to be.
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Si fractum non sit, noli id reficere.
Teach a child to be polite and courteous in the home and, when he grows up, he'll never be able to drive in New Jersey.
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by Beebs52 » Wed Feb 09, 2022 2:01 pm
Bob Juch wrote: ↑Wed Feb 09, 2022 1:06 pm
My shoulders are getting tired.
Do you have anyone to talk to or help?
Well, then
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by Bob Juch » Wed Feb 09, 2022 2:20 pm
Beebs52 wrote: ↑Wed Feb 09, 2022 2:01 pm
Bob Juch wrote: ↑Wed Feb 09, 2022 1:06 pm
My shoulders are getting tired.
Do you have anyone to talk to or help?
No. My wife doesn't want to talk about my "other family" and has her own problems.
I may not have gone where I intended to go, but I think I have ended up where I needed to be.
- Douglas Adams (1952 - 2001)
Si fractum non sit, noli id reficere.
Teach a child to be polite and courteous in the home and, when he grows up, he'll never be able to drive in New Jersey.
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by Beebs52 » Wed Feb 09, 2022 2:36 pm
A friend who could visit?
Well, then
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by Bob78164 » Wed Feb 09, 2022 4:05 pm
Bob Juch wrote: ↑Wed Feb 09, 2022 2:20 pm
Beebs52 wrote: ↑Wed Feb 09, 2022 2:01 pm
Bob Juch wrote: ↑Wed Feb 09, 2022 1:06 pm
My shoulders are getting tired.
Do you have anyone to talk to or help?
No. My wife doesn't want to talk about my "other family" and has her own problems.
There must be organized groups of people with similar experiences. Al-Anon for families of alcoholics. Grief groups for families of people with serious or fatal illnesses.
Because Beebs is 100% correct. (And how often do I say that?) You shouldn't go through this alone if there's any viable alternative. It's a very heavy load you're trying to carry.
Please take care of yourself. That's really the only part of any of this that's within your control. --Bob
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by Bob Juch » Wed Feb 09, 2022 5:36 pm
Beebs52 wrote: ↑Wed Feb 09, 2022 2:36 pm
A friend who could visit?
My closest friends are far away. My friends here are all in my Mensa group. We've been having monthly Zoom get-togethers.
My best friend and I talk often; she's on Long Island.
I may not have gone where I intended to go, but I think I have ended up where I needed to be.
- Douglas Adams (1952 - 2001)
Si fractum non sit, noli id reficere.
Teach a child to be polite and courteous in the home and, when he grows up, he'll never be able to drive in New Jersey.
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by Beebs52 » Wed Feb 09, 2022 5:38 pm
Bob78164 wrote: ↑Wed Feb 09, 2022 4:05 pm
Bob Juch wrote: ↑Wed Feb 09, 2022 2:20 pm
Beebs52 wrote: ↑Wed Feb 09, 2022 2:01 pm
Do you have anyone to talk to or help?
No. My wife doesn't want to talk about my "other family" and has her own problems.
There must be organized groups of people with similar experiences. Al-Anon for families of alcoholics. Grief groups for families of people with serious or fatal illnesses.
Because Beebs is 100% correct. (And how often do I say that?) You shouldn't go through this alone if there's any viable alternative. It's a very heavy load you're trying to carry.
Please take care of yourself. That's really the only part of any of this that's within your control. --Bob
There're narc anon things, too. Good friends of ours' son was involved with heroin for quite awhile. He's doing fine now, but that org can help.
Well, then
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by Bob Juch » Wed Feb 09, 2022 5:40 pm
Bob78164 wrote: ↑Wed Feb 09, 2022 4:05 pm
Bob Juch wrote: ↑Wed Feb 09, 2022 2:20 pm
Beebs52 wrote: ↑Wed Feb 09, 2022 2:01 pm
Do you have anyone to talk to or help?
No. My wife doesn't want to talk about my "other family" and has her own problems.
There must be organized groups of people with similar experiences. Al-Anon for families of alcoholics. Grief groups for families of people with serious or fatal illnesses.
Because Beebs is 100% correct. (And how often do I say that?) You shouldn't go through this alone if there's any viable alternative. It's a very heavy load you're trying to carry.
Please take care of yourself. That's really the only part of any of this that's within your control. --Bob
Oh, I take care of myself. No one else will. I can't take care of anyone else if I'm not well. My problem right now is that my heart is acting up again. I have an appointment tomorrow with my cardiologist; I hope he'll set it right soon.
I may not have gone where I intended to go, but I think I have ended up where I needed to be.
- Douglas Adams (1952 - 2001)
Si fractum non sit, noli id reficere.
Teach a child to be polite and courteous in the home and, when he grows up, he'll never be able to drive in New Jersey.
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by Bob Juch » Thu Feb 10, 2022 9:22 pm
After my cardiologist appointment today, I sopped off at my local pub, Nobile Hops, for lunch and a couple of beers. I got into some good conversations and wound up staying until 7:30. I feel much better now.
I was prescribed Xarelto and Propafenone.
I may not have gone where I intended to go, but I think I have ended up where I needed to be.
- Douglas Adams (1952 - 2001)
Si fractum non sit, noli id reficere.
Teach a child to be polite and courteous in the home and, when he grows up, he'll never be able to drive in New Jersey.
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by silverscreenselect » Thu Feb 10, 2022 10:54 pm
Bob Juch wrote: ↑Thu Feb 10, 2022 9:22 pm
After my cardiologist appointment today, I sopped off at my local pub, Nobile Hops, for lunch and a couple of beers. I got into some good conversations and wound up staying until 7:30. I feel much better now.
I was prescribed Xarelto and Propafenone.
I'm glad you can keep your spirits up. Hope you get through this as well as possible.
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