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RIP a dear friend

#1 Post by Im_Ace » Mon Apr 28, 2008 4:06 pm

Jane Darling Lefco, age 58, of Atlanta died unexpectedly on April 27, 2008. Jane was loving, caring, generous, and best wife and mom with many wonderful friends. She is survived by her husband, Stan; daughter, Leah Lefco; son, Michael Lefco; sister and brother, Ann and Michael Levin; nephew, David and Ilene Levin; niece, Leigh (Levin) and Mathew Nathan; great-nieces and great-nephews, Aaron and Lily Levin and Rachel and Rebecca Nathan, all of Atlanta; cousins, Sally and Julie Forb, St. Louis, and numerous extended family and friends. She was preceded in death by her parents, Helen and Mose Darling.

Jane was the mother of my oldest daughter's best friend and the mother of one of my oldest son's friends. Through the children, we became very good friends. Although small in stature, she was a fun, smart, witty and very generous woman. Always with a smile. Always with a joke. Whenever anyone wanted to know what was going on in the Jewish community, all we had to do was call Jane. She knew it all. A true Yenta. A dear friend who will be sorely missed.

I saw Jane just a week ago. She looked at me and said, "Ace? Now I can say that you really do have gray hair !!"

Stan married right out of college, 30+ years ago. After 2 years, his wife died of serious illness. Jane was his second wife. At this point, he has shown a great deal of strength, on the outside. I can only imagine how this is (will) affect him on the inside.
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#2 Post by silvercamaro » Mon Apr 28, 2008 4:09 pm

Ace, I'm sorry for the loss of your friend. My condolences go to her family, friends and acquaintances -- to everyone who knew and adored her.

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#3 Post by T_Bone0806 » Mon Apr 28, 2008 4:15 pm

condolences to all involved.
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#4 Post by kayrharris » Mon Apr 28, 2008 4:21 pm

I'm so sorry. It's hard to lose a friend anytime, but when they are so young it seems even harder. My condolences to you and yours.
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#5 Post by Sir_Galahad » Mon Apr 28, 2008 6:08 pm

I am sorry that hear that, Ace. And my condolences to you.
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#6 Post by mrkelley23 » Mon Apr 28, 2008 6:12 pm

Such a shame for one so young.

You and yours have my condolences and best wishes.
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#7 Post by Ritterskoop » Mon Apr 28, 2008 6:24 pm

Thinking good thoughts for you and your friend's family.
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#8 Post by PlacentiaSoccerMom » Mon Apr 28, 2008 6:44 pm

It sounds as though her loss will be felt by many. My condolences to you and her family.

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#9 Post by MarleysGh0st » Tue Apr 29, 2008 6:18 am

Condolences to all.

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#10 Post by gsabc » Tue Apr 29, 2008 7:07 am

My sympathies. This is achingly familiar territory to me, very similar to what happened to my oldest sister. I will add Jane's family to my prayer list.
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#11 Post by BackInTex » Tue Apr 29, 2008 7:16 am

I'm so sorry to hear this.

Her family is in my prayers.
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#12 Post by peacock2121 » Tue Apr 29, 2008 7:21 am

Ace,

I am so sorry for you, your friend and all of the people who will miss Jane.

My condolences to all.

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#13 Post by mellytu74 » Tue Apr 29, 2008 7:28 am

Oh, dear, Ace.

My sympathies to you, Stan and his family and everyone in the community who was touched by Jane, who sounds like a wonderful woman.

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