Well, I got a job offer from a company. A former co-worker is the CFO.They are a start-up. He told me they couldn't meet my current salary, but could get close. They got close (about $500/month less) to my current base. However, I guess I never realized how "generous" my current employer was regarding our healthcare plan. While the company that made me the offer has a similar plan, to get the same level of coverage (deductibles, co-pays, max out of pocket) I would be paying over $1,300 more a month. I looked at "what if we used my wife's insurance instead". It was $980 a month more. The best I could do is have me on my new company's plan, and my wife and kids on her plan. That would make the increase only $560 a month. So a net $1,160/month pay cut. Ouch! I'd really like to work there. I know the CEO, CAO, CFO, and I'd be doing stuff I like and the upside could be good. But given that I would get a large chunk of cash by sticking around here for 4-5 months (if there was some kind of agreement

) I don't think I can walk away from that potential chunk of cash and give up $1,000 a month to boot. I'll have to say "no".
I'm waiting to hear from two more companies about an interview. Fingers crossed.
I would like to "walk away" from the potential chunk of cash, just on principle. Our company's standard severance policy would give me 1 week for every year of employment, or about 12 weeks. The potential chunk of cash is less than that. "You're so valuable well pay you less to stay longer than if we asked you to leave sooner." Huh?
..what country can preserve it’s liberties if their rulers are not warned from time to time that their people preserve the spirit of resistance? let them take arms.
~~ Thomas Jefferson
War is where the government tells you who the bad guy is.
Revolution is when you decide that for yourself.
-- Benjamin Franklin (maybe)