BackInTex wrote:I agree. I also wish that everyone would realize these are normal and that without exception, everyone has them in some form to some extent.silverscreenselect wrote: I really wish that some less divisive word would gain some traction so that people can recognize that bias and prejudgments exist without actual animosity.
I've been saying this for a long long time. The trick is to recognize and acknowledge it when we do it, and having done so, move on from it and do all we can to correct that automatic prejudgment. I really do think that just about everyone is predisposed to categorize someone who is different than them in a certain way..a knee-jerk reaction if you will. I'm not just talking race, I'm talking age, weight, mobility issues (yeah, I've been on the other end of that), whatever...but as a species that is supposedly at the top of the heap as a thinking, reasoning creature, we should be able to own up to it and say "ok, it's not logical to think that way based on a stereotyped notion", allow yourself a mea culpa, brush aside that initial reaction, and get about the business of objectively assessing the situation or the subject. Hey, the person may indeed to turn out to be an asshole, in which case you have every right to see them that way. They could be someone you admire greatly but just don't agree with. Or they could turn out to be your new best friend. First step, though, is to admit that we all carry at least a little of that initial prejudgment baggage with us and then do our best to set it down.