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#1 Post by marrymeflyfree » Mon Mar 24, 2008 2:26 pm

Some bad news in the MMFF household lately.

Firstly, we found out a couple of weeks ago that Tia the Rottweiller likely has bone cancer. She is easily one of the coolest dogs I've had the pleasure of knowing, and is too young (7) for such a fate. Tia is my future FIL's dog, and I worry a bit about how he will handle her loss. (They have decided not to do any aggressive treatment for various reasons, and will put her down as soon as she starts showing any decrease in her quality of life.) To simply say that FFIL is attached to this dog does a disservice to their bond. They had two Rottweller's years ago...when the old one died of natural old-age things, the younger one followed shortly thereafter. Broken heart, perhaps. It was devastating for their family, especially the dad. They're getting some time to prepare this time, at least, but I still worry. I will miss that dog fiercely.

Secondly, my uncle is in the hospital and not doing so well. This is the uncle who is developmentally disabled and who lost his beloved dachshund a few months back. My mom has worked hard to set things up so that he could continue to live independently after their mother died, and he's done well for several years. Easter morning, mom woke up abruptly around 5am just knowing something was not right with him. She went to his house, and found him drowning in mucous and barely breathing. The docs said another hour or two and he likely would have died. He's now in the hospital, with a probable diagnosis of lung cancer. If he improves, he will be moved into a nursing home, but it doesn't appear that he'll be with us much longer. Smoking is horrid, but he is a simple man for whom simple pleasures mean a lot - and he probably got more joy in his 70+ years from cigarettes than anything else. In this case, it's tough to be bitter about the cancer. He's had a long and content life.

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#2 Post by Bob Juch » Mon Mar 24, 2008 2:40 pm

You'd have my sympathies anyway, but Tia looks too much like my old dog, Max (we named him before everyone called their dog Max), so I'm sitting here all teary right now.
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#3 Post by silvercamaro » Mon Mar 24, 2008 2:55 pm

I am so sorry. Tia looks like a wonderful dog. I'm glad she'll get much affection in her remaining days. Your uncle seems like a love, and I trust he'll get the same deal.

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#4 Post by tlynn78 » Mon Mar 24, 2008 3:22 pm

She is beautiful.


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#5 Post by peacock2121 » Mon Mar 24, 2008 3:37 pm

I am so sorry that two important members of your family have cancer. I say that when one member gets it, the whole family is impacted. May you all remember the love of and from Tia and your uncle for a very long time.

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#6 Post by SportsFan68 » Mon Mar 24, 2008 3:56 pm

I'm so sorry about your beautiful big girl. What a lap dog!

Also for your uncle, sending my wish that the suffering and pain are minimal. I'm glad your mom woke up. I bet it would have haunted her the rest of her life if she hadn't.
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#7 Post by ghostjmf » Mon Mar 24, 2008 4:27 pm

You have my sympathy. May they both go out when they do with if possible no pain.

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#8 Post by kayrharris » Mon Mar 24, 2008 4:51 pm

I'm with SC on this one, cancer is a bitch and it is so hard on everyone.
I do hope both the dear canine and your dear uncle can be kept as comfortable as possible for both them and their loved ones around them.
I'm very sorry.
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#9 Post by ne1410s » Mon Mar 24, 2008 5:42 pm

mmff,

I am so sorry to hear about these travails. I hope both are kept comfortable.
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#10 Post by AlphaDummy » Mon Mar 24, 2008 7:21 pm

So sorry to hear the news. Here is hoping that Tia and your uncle, as well as their loved ones, find whatever comfort they may need in the days to come.
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#11 Post by Beebs52 » Mon Mar 24, 2008 8:38 pm

I'm so sorry MMFF. It sucks. I wish peace and an easy exit for both. They know they are loved.

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#12 Post by PlacentiaSoccerMom » Mon Mar 24, 2008 10:27 pm

I am very sorry MMFF.

When my cat Sebastian was diagnosed with oral cancer, people on the bored told me that I would know when it was time to put him to sleep and I did. He was purring at the end, and I think that he knew it was time as well.

Tia will know that she is loved and that your FIL is trying to spare her from pain.

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