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An offer I can't refuse (bridge) . . .

#1 Post by SportsFan68 » Thu Feb 19, 2009 5:57 pm

I've been offered the opportunity to teach a beginning bridge class, something I would love to do. This came about because my semi-regular partner of the last year is moving to Fan's area; he was gonna teach it but obviously can't now.

Couple roadblocks still ahead, but if it goes, it will start in September.

Question for all y'all bridge players:

What do you consider to be the three most important things you learned about bridge as a beginner?

If this is something you're inclined to do, please rank them in order of importance.

Any help appreciated.
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Re: An offer I can't refuse (bridge) . . .

#2 Post by macrae1234 » Thu Feb 19, 2009 6:30 pm

Bridge is a social game and you are meant to have fun respect your partner and your opponents.
Bridge is a continuing game of re-evaluating your cards as the auction and then play progress.
Start simple and don't get inundated with treatments and conventions be comfortable with what you are playing before adding new things.
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Re: An offer I can't refuse (bridge) . . .

#3 Post by ToLiveIsToFly » Thu Feb 19, 2009 6:58 pm

1. Count your points correctly.
2. Unless you're world-champ level, don't get mad at your partner. You'll do things just as boneheaded as he/she just did.
3. Find out what your partner likes to drink. Remember this when you're dummy.

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Re: An offer I can't refuse (bridge) . . .

#4 Post by o-man » Thu Feb 19, 2009 7:42 pm

ToLiveIsToFly wrote:1. Count your points correctly.
2. Unless you're world-champ level, don't get mad at your partner. You'll do things just as boneheaded as he/she just did.
3. Find out what your partner likes to drink. Remember this when you're dummy.
Cazart! This could just as easily apply to doubles tennis. Good luck with your class!
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Re: An offer I can't refuse (bridge) . . .

#5 Post by SportsFan68 » Thu Feb 19, 2009 9:25 pm

Good suggestions, y'all. Thanks!

I may BIF a couple times, not all the bridge players have chimed in. Skoop usually has something good to say in bridge threads.

I may add something on my own, something like:

Rule #1: The instructor does not make mistakes.
Rule #2: In case the instructor makes a mistake, see Rule #1.
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Re: An offer I can't refuse (bridge) . . .

#6 Post by Bob78164 » Fri Feb 20, 2009 1:28 am

SportsFan68 wrote:I've been offered the opportunity to teach a beginning bridge class, something I would love to do. This came about because my semi-regular partner of the last year is moving to Fan's area; he was gonna teach it but obviously can't now.

Couple roadblocks still ahead, but if it goes, it will start in September.

Question for all y'all bridge players:

What do you consider to be the three most important things you learned about bridge as a beginner?

If this is something you're inclined to do, please rank them in order of importance.

Any help appreciated.
Have you looked into the ACBL's teaching series? --Bob
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Re: An offer I can't refuse (bridge) . . .

#7 Post by Ritterskoop » Fri Feb 20, 2009 1:47 am

My pearls of wisdom, in reverse order (only to prolong the suspense - No. 1 is the most important of them):

3. If the diamond Q has to be on your left to make the hand, assume it's on your left. Don't bother with what-ifs which include it being on the right. This is also helpful in real life, though not so often with queens.

2. If you learn what you can from a particular hand, mostly you will be able to apply that same lesson to another hand or to something in your life. Unless you are my dad, to whom every single hand is unique and there are no abstract lessons to be learned.

1. From both bridge and pinball, I learned that sometimes even when you play the hand/ball just right, the game will
Spoiler
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you anyway.

So get over it. Be happy you played it right, and don't worry about the consequences.
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Re: An offer I can't refuse (bridge) . . .

#8 Post by peacock2121 » Fri Feb 20, 2009 5:54 am

Notice when you are bringing your feelings about your partner into the hand and you are not just playing bridge, you are playing something else.

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#9 Post by peacock2121 » Fri Feb 20, 2009 5:54 am

And - how lucky that those people will be taught by you!

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#10 Post by SportsFan68 » Fri Feb 20, 2009 11:19 am

Bob78164 wrote:
SportsFan68 wrote:I've been offered the opportunity to teach a beginning bridge class, something I would love to do. This came about because my semi-regular partner of the last year is moving to Fan's area; he was gonna teach it but obviously can't now.

Couple roadblocks still ahead, but if it goes, it will start in September.

Question for all y'all bridge players:

What do you consider to be the three most important things you learned about bridge as a beginner?

If this is something you're inclined to do, please rank them in order of importance.

Any help appreciated.
Have you looked into the ACBL's teaching series? --Bob
I have not! Thanks! I just realized how ignorant I am about what ACBL does have to offer. Just about all I've ever used them for is to send my nice magazine on time and track all my masterpoints. Did I mention I'm up to Club Master? Thought so . . . :wink:
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#11 Post by SportsFan68 » Fri Feb 20, 2009 11:20 am

Ritterskoop wrote:My pearls of wisdom, in reverse order (only to prolong the suspense - No. 1 is the most important of them):

3. If the diamond Q has to be on your left to make the hand, assume it's on your left. Don't bother with what-ifs which include it being on the right. This is also helpful in real life, though not so often with queens.

2. If you learn what you can from a particular hand, mostly you will be able to apply that same lesson to another hand or to something in your life. Unless you are my dad, to whom every single hand is unique and there are no abstract lessons to be learned.

1. From both bridge and pinball, I learned that sometimes even when you play the hand/ball just right, the game will
Spoiler
fuck
you anyway.

So get over it. Be happy you played it right, and don't worry about the consequences.
I was right again!
Skoop usually has something good to say in bridge threads.
Thanks, Skoop.
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-- America would be a better place if leaders would do more long-term thinking. -- Wilma Mankiller

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#12 Post by SportsFan68 » Fri Feb 20, 2009 11:25 am

peacock2121 wrote:Notice when you are bringing your feelings about your partner into the hand and you are not just playing bridge, you are playing something else.
That's true, and something I hope I can get across.
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#13 Post by SportsFan68 » Fri Feb 20, 2009 11:25 am

peacock2121 wrote:And - how lucky that those people will be taught by you!
Thanks! I think it will be a good thing.
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#14 Post by sunflower » Fri Feb 20, 2009 11:48 am

This is all like a foreign language to me, maybe I should learn! I never know what on earth you guys are talking about when you talk bridge!

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#15 Post by SportsFan68 » Fri Feb 20, 2009 11:50 am

sunflower wrote:This is all like a foreign language to me, maybe I should learn! I never know what on earth you guys are talking about when you talk bridge!
Lessons begin the third (probably) week in September! :mrgreen:
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#16 Post by earendel » Fri Feb 20, 2009 12:04 pm

sunflower wrote:This is all like a foreign language to me, maybe I should learn! I never know what on earth you guys are talking about when you talk bridge!
Just do what I do and stand in the corner and look cute. :mrgreen:
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#17 Post by sunflower » Fri Feb 20, 2009 12:15 pm

earendel wrote:
sunflower wrote:This is all like a foreign language to me, maybe I should learn! I never know what on earth you guys are talking about when you talk bridge!
Just do what I do and stand in the corner and look cute. :mrgreen:
I think that's probably the best idea!

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#18 Post by Bob78164 » Fri Feb 20, 2009 12:17 pm

SportsFan68 wrote:
Bob78164 wrote:
SportsFan68 wrote:I've been offered the opportunity to teach a beginning bridge class, something I would love to do. This came about because my semi-regular partner of the last year is moving to Fan's area; he was gonna teach it but obviously can't now.

Couple roadblocks still ahead, but if it goes, it will start in September.

Question for all y'all bridge players:

What do you consider to be the three most important things you learned about bridge as a beginner?

If this is something you're inclined to do, please rank them in order of importance.

Any help appreciated.
Have you looked into the ACBL's teaching series? --Bob
I have not! Thanks! I just realized how ignorant I am about what ACBL does have to offer. Just about all I've ever used them for is to send my nice magazine on time and track all my masterpoints. Did I mention I'm up to Club Master? Thought so . . . :wink:
I think there are four series -- the Club Series, the Diamond Series, the Heart Series, and the Spade Series. --Bob
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Re: An offer I can't refuse (bridge) . . .

#19 Post by kusch » Fri Feb 20, 2009 1:27 pm

SportsFan68 wrote:I've been offered the opportunity to teach a beginning bridge class, something I would love to do. This came about because my semi-regular partner of the last year is moving to Fan's area; he was gonna teach it but obviously can't now.

Couple roadblocks still ahead, but if it goes, it will start in September.

Question for all y'all bridge players:

What do you consider to be the three most important things you learned about bridge as a beginner?

If this is something you're inclined to do, please rank them in order of importance.

Any help appreciated.
1. You will make mistakes, but you will learn from those mistakes. Don't dwell on the mistakes because you will make them as long as you play and you will continue to learn as long as you play.

2. Discuss the hands after all boards have been played and the session is over, not between boards.

3. Remember, you have a partner.

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