Ritterskoop wrote:OK. Here's what I meant to say in the original thread but did not know it was what I wanted to say.
Deep down, I do not care that Millionaire Fan's post was altered. It was probably a service to do so. I do not care about spoilers anymore because I rarely watch the show anymore.
What troubled me was that it raised the possibility that one of MY posts might be altered. It was about my liberty.
Now that I see that is unlikely, since Bob said or implied he would have been less likely (or unlikely) to alter Pea's post if she made a mistake, and I must presume, mine and also other long-standing posters. Probably we wold intend whatever we said to be in the open or not, rather than do something wrong by not knowing the etiquette.
Since I have less interest in protesting a possible slight to someone I don't know who may not have taken offense (Millionaire Fan), my concern for injustice is lessened. Partly because it is not about me (though I would always fight for a clear injustice toward someone else), and partly because Millionaire Fan has said nothing to indicate s/he cares one way or the other.
I agree this is a lightly-moderated board compared to most, but that has been what we treasure about it. Balancing the wish for that environment to stay as is against the realities of spoilers and porn and all that will now and then result in a little ruffling of feathers.
My feathers are back where they started, thank you.
I find that I came down to this conclusion. At first, I was pissed off that members of this bored got their posts changed without permission - I was one of those people - and after I raised holy hell, it happened again to someone else. It still pisses me off that that happens.
Then I got that it will not be stopping.
Then I weighed how much it pisses me off against how much this place contributes to me. I am free to leave and I wondered if this was worth leaving over.
Then Bob##s said he would not edit my posts.
I asked myself could I stand having other's posts changed (especially when it doesn't seem to bother them).
I will still raise holy hell if I find out mine have been changed and I will raise triple holy hell if another's is changed and he/she are pissed about it.
I am still creeped out that IP addresses are checked 'for fun'. They can check mine all they want and it still creeps me out.
I like that the Booch thing will not be happening again, give we know that all that can be checked.
Just because it can be done, doesn't make it okay to do it.
I think all of my thoughts are out of my head now.