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Re: Passive Aggressive

#26 Post by tlynn78 » Fri Dec 19, 2008 1:46 pm

In my head, Passive-Aggressive is like telling the 20-something co-worker you don't like: "I love that sweater you're wearing. I got my grandma one just like it for Christmas." Basically, getting your way, or getting a dig in, (aggressive) while on the surface seeming to be 'nice' (passive).

I've been guilty of P-A actions, but prefer to think of it as being artfully sneaky.


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Re: Passive Aggressive

#27 Post by secondchance » Sat Dec 20, 2008 12:23 am

It's 10:20pm, lots of cars, but still no throbbing bass or window shattering decibels. Yahoo.

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Re: Passive Aggressive

#28 Post by peacock2121 » Sat Dec 20, 2008 6:51 am

tlynn78 wrote:In my head, Passive-Aggressive is like telling the 20-something co-worker you don't like: "I love that sweater you're wearing. I got my grandma one just like it for Christmas." Basically, getting your way, or getting a dig in, (aggressive) while on the surface seeming to be 'nice' (passive).

I've been guilty of P-A actions, but prefer to think of it as being artfully sneaky.


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I have always thought of that kind of behavior as snarky.

I have thought of passive aggressive as saying nothing when others are complimenting the sweater. or Saying "you think so?" when someone else does. or sayin Yeah? when someone else does.

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Re: Passive Aggressive

#29 Post by littlebeast13 » Sat Dec 20, 2008 7:36 am

Second Chance wrote:I'm sure not, Kay. It's just the one's with the DJ's till 3am that kill us.

lb, you can take off work one night, can't ya? :)

Are you kidding? Not this time of the year.....

I doubt the DJ plays my kind of music anyway.....

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Re: Passive Aggressive

#30 Post by cindy.wellman » Sat Dec 20, 2008 12:42 pm

littlebeast13 wrote:
Second Chance wrote:I'm sure not, Kay. It's just the one's with the DJ's till 3am that kill us.

lb, you can take off work one night, can't ya? :)

Are you kidding? Not this time of the year.....

I doubt the DJ plays my kind of music anyway.....

lb13

What type of music is your kind of music?

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Re: Passive Aggressive

#31 Post by themanintheseersuckersuit » Sun Dec 28, 2008 2:45 pm

Suitguy is not bitter.

feels he represents the many educated and rational onlookers who believe that the hysterical denouncement of lay scepticism is both unwarranted and counter-productive

The problem, then, is that such calls do not address an opposition audience so much as they signal virtue. They talk past those who need convincing. They ignore actual facts and counterargument. And they are irreparably smug.

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Re: Passive Aggressive

#32 Post by silvercamaro » Sun Dec 28, 2008 2:52 pm


I am not "horrible bitch who takes pleasure in other people’s misery." I simply love company. :D
Now generating the White Hot Glare of Righteousness on behalf of BBs everywhere.

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Re: Passive Aggressive

#33 Post by themanintheseersuckersuit » Sun Dec 28, 2008 2:58 pm

silvercamaro wrote:

I am not "horrible bitch who takes pleasure in other people’s misery." I simply love company. :D
Oh I left the :D of my post.
Suitguy is not bitter.

feels he represents the many educated and rational onlookers who believe that the hysterical denouncement of lay scepticism is both unwarranted and counter-productive

The problem, then, is that such calls do not address an opposition audience so much as they signal virtue. They talk past those who need convincing. They ignore actual facts and counterargument. And they are irreparably smug.

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Re: Passive Aggressive

#34 Post by minimetoo26 » Mon Dec 29, 2008 10:14 am


This whole site is too funny! It reminds me of clem, if clem couldn't spell......
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