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Gift Ideas?!?

#1 Post by sunflower » Wed Dec 10, 2008 2:31 pm

I am at a total loss for what to buy my grandmother. Now I realize that I have known her for 33 years and no one here has even met her once (that I know of) so of course I know her better than anyone here. But I have no idea what to buy her.

This is a woman who downsized a house full of 45 years worth of stuff into a small studio apartment. She pretty much has no room for anything. Last year was good, I upgraded all her pictures of me to new ones but now that is done and I have no ideas for this year at all. I usually resort to jewelry and it's getting old, I have a feeling she thinks "oh great, another pair of earrings..." plus then I always get earrings, which I never wear (I think she thinks I like them since I give them so much!).

She likes to cook/bake, knit (but doesn't do it much due to arthritis), travel and do volunteer work. Random information, maybe it will be helpful.

Oh and to top it off, we're doing a $20 limit per person. But I'm crafty with coupons so if you have more expensive ideas, throw them out there! Any suggestions are welcome.

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#2 Post by andrewjackson » Wed Dec 10, 2008 2:36 pm

I think picture frames are always a good gift.
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#3 Post by MarleysGh0st » Wed Dec 10, 2008 2:41 pm

Food items are good and won't take up any (permanent) space in her apartment.

Or a gift card to a local restaurant, if you don't cook/bake, yourself.

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#4 Post by tlynn78 » Wed Dec 10, 2008 2:48 pm

Does she have a favorite tv show/movie? You could get her the dvd - lots of older stuff out in addition to the newer ones. I love to get books from my favorite authors, too. I won't spend the money for a hardback, always wait for the paperback to come out. My grandma liked to get flavored teas she could share with her friends; I gave her some one year with a pretty little teapot and matching cups - she loved it. You might also consider a 'coupon book' good for rides, taking her to a movie or lunch, stuff like that...

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#5 Post by Appa23 » Wed Dec 10, 2008 2:49 pm

It's your Nana! I say forget the price limit and get her a digital picture frame so that she can have several different photos of grandkids or whatever at one time.

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#6 Post by a1mamacat » Wed Dec 10, 2008 3:19 pm

Give her an appointment at a spa for a deluxe manicure. If her hands bother her from the arthritis, then pretty nails might make her feel better.
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#7 Post by MarkBarrett » Wed Dec 10, 2008 3:47 pm

Along the line of photo ideas: A family photo calendar or those photo postage stamps? Or even a book or sheet or regular postage stamps?

Instead of earrings: pins for different holidays throughout the year

I've seen various animals for windows that have different outfits to wear for holidays.

A box filled with wrapping paper/ribbons/bows to handle different occasions

One of those optic fiber color-changing lights that come in many designs

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#8 Post by clem21 » Wed Dec 10, 2008 3:53 pm

MarkBarrett wrote:Along the line of photo ideas: A family photo calendar or those photo postage stamps? Or even a book or sheet or regular postage stamps?
I was going to make this same suggestion. For her birthday, I got my grandma this calendar and I added all her kids' and grandkids' birthdays/anniversaries with pictures in the appropriate boxes. I also added family holiday pics to corresponding holiday date boxes.

http://www2.snapfish.com/storecalendars/size=8x11#top

She absolutely loved it (and I'm pretty sure it wasn't the usual fake grandkid present happiness)

If you put a bit of work in, it's a cheap and very personal gift that's great for a grandma I think...
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#9 Post by SportsFan68 » Wed Dec 10, 2008 4:44 pm

These are all great ideas. At the risk of agreeing with Clem and making him think I'm trying for Clem points, I agree with the personalized calendar idea. My 79-year-old friend gets one every year from her oldest daughter and loves it. Not only that, despite limited space, she saves them all.
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#10 Post by kayrharris » Wed Dec 10, 2008 4:53 pm

I have to agree with Sprots, Joey's calendar is a great gift. Of course, I like all the other
suggestions too! I'd probably spend more than $20 too, but maybe she wouldn't notice. :)
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#11 Post by SportsFan68 » Wed Dec 10, 2008 5:00 pm

kayrharris wrote:I have to agree with Sprots, Joey's calendar is a great gift. Of course, I like all the other
suggestions too! I'd probably spend more than $20 too, but maybe she wouldn't notice. :)
Hey!

Quit trying to snag some of my points! :wink:
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#12 Post by kayrharris » Wed Dec 10, 2008 5:20 pm

SportsFan68 wrote:
kayrharris wrote:I have to agree with Sprots, Joey's calendar is a great gift. Of course, I like all the other
suggestions too! I'd probably spend more than $20 too, but maybe she wouldn't notice. :)
Hey!

Quit trying to snag some of my points! :wink:
:?: :?: :?: :?: :mrgreen:
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#13 Post by clem21 » Wed Dec 10, 2008 5:52 pm

kayrharris wrote:
SportsFan68 wrote:
kayrharris wrote:I have to agree with Sprots, Joey's calendar is a great gift. Of course, I like all the other
suggestions too! I'd probably spend more than $20 too, but maybe she wouldn't notice. :)
Hey!

Quit trying to snag some of my points! :wink:
:?: :?: :?: :?: :mrgreen:
Stop fighting.....

2 Clem points to Sprots for agreeing with me and excellent usage of an "I'm not really joking but I'm using a smiley so I can pretend I was joking" smiley. This brings Sprots' total up to 1.

1 Clem point to Kay just 'cuz I'm in a good mood. Don't make it a habit Kay, nobody likes a suckup :wink: This brings Kay's total up to 2
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#14 Post by a1mamacat » Wed Dec 10, 2008 6:05 pm

clem21 wrote:
kayrharris wrote:
SportsFan68 wrote: Hey!

Quit trying to snag some of my points! :wink:
:?: :?: :?: :?: :mrgreen:
Stop fighting.....

2 Clem points to Sprots for agreeing with me and excellent usage of an "I'm not really joking but I'm using a smiley so I can pretend I was joking" smiley. This brings Sprots' total up to 1.

1 Clem point to Kay just 'cuz I'm in a good mood. Don't make it a habit Kay, nobody likes a suckup :wink: This brings Kay's total up to 2
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#15 Post by kayrharris » Wed Dec 10, 2008 6:11 pm

clem21 wrote:
kayrharris wrote:
SportsFan68 wrote: Hey!

Quit trying to snag some of my points! :wink:
:?: :?: :?: :?: :mrgreen:
Stop fighting.....

2 Clem points to Sprots for agreeing with me and excellent usage of an "I'm not really joking but I'm using a smiley so I can pretend I was joking" smiley. This brings Sprots' total up to 1.

1 Clem point to Kay just 'cuz I'm in a good mood. Don't make it a habit Kay, nobody likes a suckup :wink: This brings Kay's total up to 2
But last night Sprots wanted negative points!!
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#16 Post by clem21 » Wed Dec 10, 2008 6:16 pm

a1mamacat wrote:
clem21 wrote:
kayrharris wrote: :?: :?: :?: :?: :mrgreen:
Stop fighting.....

2 Clem points to Sprots for agreeing with me and excellent usage of an "I'm not really joking but I'm using a smiley so I can pretend I was joking" smiley. This brings Sprots' total up to 1.

1 Clem point to Kay just 'cuz I'm in a good mood. Don't make it a habit Kay, nobody likes a suckup :wink: This brings Kay's total up to 2
Pot - meet Kettle
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#17 Post by littlebeast13 » Wed Dec 10, 2008 8:45 pm

kayrharris wrote:
clem21 wrote:
kayrharris wrote: :?: :?: :?: :?: :mrgreen:
Stop fighting.....

2 Clem points to Sprots for agreeing with me and excellent usage of an "I'm not really joking but I'm using a smiley so I can pretend I was joking" smiley. This brings Sprots' total up to 1.

1 Clem point to Kay just 'cuz I'm in a good mood. Don't make it a habit Kay, nobody likes a suckup :wink: This brings Kay's total up to 2
But last night Sprots wanted negative points!!

I love negative points!

I didn't realize Clem gave them out though, so I guess I'm gonna have to try harder to piss him off now....

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#18 Post by kayrharris » Wed Dec 10, 2008 10:02 pm

littlebeast13 wrote:
kayrharris wrote:
clem21 wrote: Stop fighting.....

2 Clem points to Sprots for agreeing with me and excellent usage of an "I'm not really joking but I'm using a smiley so I can pretend I was joking" smiley. This brings Sprots' total up to 1.

1 Clem point to Kay just 'cuz I'm in a good mood. Don't make it a habit Kay, nobody likes a suckup :wink: This brings Kay's total up to 2
But last night Sprots wanted negative points!!

I love negative points!

I didn't realize Clem gave them out though, so I guess I'm gonna have to try harder to piss him off now....

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#19 Post by SportsFan68 » Wed Dec 10, 2008 10:03 pm

There's Kay!

Come to chat!
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