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#1 Post by AlphaDummy » Sun Nov 09, 2008 4:10 pm

...passed away peacefully in his sleep early this morning.

It was, I suppose, not all that big of a surprise given the state of his health over the last few months. At the same time, it was unexpected in a way...hopefully you know what I am saying.

Dad was 79 years old. Given his life history, you might say that we got way, way more time with him than might have been. And yes, he did live a full life. Still gonna miss him, though.

Mom is doing very well, thanks; I think she was probably as prepared as a person could be. And the kids seem to be doing okay for the most part as well.

Sorry if this is a bit brief...lots to do right now, and not only with things pertaining to Dad. I'll poke in as I can over the next few days - hopefully fairly often (you folks make for a wonderful support group) but if I am a bit more scarce than usual I am sure you will understand.

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#2 Post by SportsFan68 » Sun Nov 09, 2008 4:12 pm

I'm so sorry, AD.

All my good thoughts to you and especially your mom.

I'll think of you often in the difficult days ahead.
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#3 Post by Timsterino » Sun Nov 09, 2008 4:14 pm

AlphaDummy wrote:...passed away peacefully in his sleep early this morning.

It was, I suppose, not all that big of a surprise given the state of his health over the last few months. At the same time, it was unexpected in a way...hopefully you know what I am saying.

Dad was 79 years old. Given his life history, you might say that we got way, way more time with him than might have been. And yes, he did live a full life. Still gonna miss him, though.

Mom is doing very well, thanks; I think she was probably as prepared as a person could be. And the kids seem to be doing okay for the most part as well.

Sorry if this is a bit brief...lots to do right now, and not only with things pertaining to Dad. I'll poke in as I can over the next few days - hopefully fairly often (you folks make for a wonderful support group) but if I am a bit more scarce than usual I am sure you will understand.

Thanks...
I am so sorry, Mike. :( My prayers are with you and your family during this difficult time.
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#4 Post by KillerTomato » Sun Nov 09, 2008 4:15 pm

My condolences, Alf, and my prayers are with you and yours.
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#5 Post by peacock2121 » Sun Nov 09, 2008 4:19 pm

I am sorry for your loss.

You and your family will be in my thoughts.

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#6 Post by Snaxx » Sun Nov 09, 2008 4:20 pm

My condolences, AD.

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#7 Post by themanintheseersuckersuit » Sun Nov 09, 2008 4:34 pm

I am so sorry for your loss.
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#8 Post by clem21 » Sun Nov 09, 2008 4:38 pm

So sorry AD.

Condolences and thoughts with you and your family.
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#9 Post by ne1410s » Sun Nov 09, 2008 4:42 pm

I'm sorry to hear this, Mike. No matter how much you prepare there is a finality that just takes one back a step. Good wishes coming your way.


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#10 Post by christie1111 » Sun Nov 09, 2008 4:59 pm

So sorry Mike. I am glad to hear it was a peaceful passing.

Just as you said, we are here for you. Stop in as needed.

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#11 Post by silvercamaro » Sun Nov 09, 2008 5:20 pm

I'm so sorry. Hugs. My heart is with you.
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#12 Post by gsabc » Sun Nov 09, 2008 5:43 pm

My condolences to you and the entire family. Take care of yourself and whatever needs to be done. We'll be here if you need us.
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#13 Post by geoffil » Sun Nov 09, 2008 5:43 pm

I am so sorry to hear about your Dad.

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#14 Post by T_Bone0806 » Sun Nov 09, 2008 5:44 pm

My heartfelt condolences, AD. Prepared or not, it is still tough to lose a parent. We weren't prepared for Dad, we were for Mom. It still hurts either way. Peace to you and yours.
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#15 Post by trevor_macfee » Sun Nov 09, 2008 5:52 pm

You are certainly in my prayers.

I don't think we can ever be "prepared" for the death of a loved one. The death of a father hits especially hard for a son, I think. Make sure you have plenty of good support.

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#16 Post by Beebs52 » Sun Nov 09, 2008 5:57 pm

Oh,AD. I'm so sorry. Everybody's said what I would say. Just know that you have lotsa friends and family sending prayers for peace and comfort your way and to your family.
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#17 Post by a1mamacat » Sun Nov 09, 2008 7:32 pm

Oh, Hugs to you and yours. :cry:

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#18 Post by Tocqueville3 » Sun Nov 09, 2008 7:35 pm

AD-I'm so sorry. Your dad was very lucky to have you as a son.

I am praying that you and your family will comforted during this rough time.
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#19 Post by littlebeast13 » Sun Nov 09, 2008 8:17 pm

You have my condolences, AD.

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#20 Post by kayrharris » Sun Nov 09, 2008 8:22 pm

Let me add my condolences to all the others here.
I know it will a difficult next few days. You and your family are in
my prayers. Hugs to you and yours.
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#21 Post by elwoodblues » Sun Nov 09, 2008 8:48 pm

I am very sorry for your loss, AD.

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#22 Post by hermillion » Sun Nov 09, 2008 9:31 pm

So very sorry to hear of your loss, AD. Please take care of yourself during this time, as well.
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#23 Post by traininvain » Sun Nov 09, 2008 9:51 pm

I'm very sorry for your loss, my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
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#24 Post by mrkelley23 » Sun Nov 09, 2008 10:03 pm

Adding my condolences, AD. It can't be easy, yet it sounds like your family is doing as well as can be expected.

Keep on doing what you do.

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#25 Post by secondchance » Sun Nov 09, 2008 10:04 pm

So, so sorry, AlphaD. I lost my daddy a few years ago. It's tough.

Sending my sympathies to you and your family.

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