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Vibes didn't help us

#1 Post by a1mamacat » Thu May 01, 2008 7:04 pm

Although I can't go into details, my son is currently in custody and goes to court in the morning.

There is a good possibility that he will be remanded into a residential program.

God, please pray for us
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#2 Post by gsabc » Thu May 01, 2008 7:06 pm

Oh dear. Vibes are hereby increased exponentially. Stay strong.
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#3 Post by KillerTomato » Thu May 01, 2008 7:07 pm

a1mamacat wrote:Although I can't go into details, my son is currently in custody and goes to court in the morning.

There is a good possibility that he will be remanded into a residential program.

God, please pray for us

Oh, bummer. I'm praying for all of you.
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#4 Post by MarleysGh0st » Thu May 01, 2008 7:10 pm

Oh, boy. Not the boarding school he was hoping for. :(

{{{{{More hugs, Trish.}}}}}
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#5 Post by Beebs52 » Thu May 01, 2008 7:15 pm

Sauce, I have no idea what's happened, but know that eventually things will work out. Be strong. Scream and pray.
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#6 Post by Bob78164 » Thu May 01, 2008 7:37 pm

a1mamacat wrote:Although I can't go into details, my son is currently in custody and goes to court in the morning.

There is a good possibility that he will be remanded into a residential program.

God, please pray for us
I hope no one was hurt. {{{{{{{More VIBES}}}}}}} --Bob
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#7 Post by PlacentiaSoccerMom » Thu May 01, 2008 7:42 pm

I am very sorry that you are going through this.
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#8 Post by a1mamacat » Thu May 01, 2008 7:43 pm

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a1mamacat wrote:Although I can't go into details, my son is currently in custody and goes to court in the morning.

There is a good possibility that he will be remanded into a residential program.

God, please pray for us
I hope no one was hurt. {{{{{{{More VIBES}}}}}}} --Bob
Physically, no thank goodness. There will be much psychological and emotional healing to be done tho.

I didn't see it, I didn't and I failed him.
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#9 Post by Bob78164 » Thu May 01, 2008 7:51 pm

a1mamacat wrote:
Bob78164 wrote:
a1mamacat wrote:Although I can't go into details, my son is currently in custody and goes to court in the morning.

There is a good possibility that he will be remanded into a residential program.

God, please pray for us
I hope no one was hurt. {{{{{{{More VIBES}}}}}}} --Bob
Physically, no thank goodness. There will be much psychological and emotional healing to be done tho.

I didn't see it, I didn't and I failed him.
Please don't blame yourself. It's probably not appropriate, but even if it were, since you can't change the past it won't do anyone any good. But beating yourself up can make it harder for you to be there for him now, when it's still possible for you to have some effect on events.

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#10 Post by Rexer25 » Thu May 01, 2008 7:54 pm

a1mamacat wrote:
Bob78164 wrote:
a1mamacat wrote:Although I can't go into details, my son is currently in custody and goes to court in the morning.

There is a good possibility that he will be remanded into a residential program.

God, please pray for us
I hope no one was hurt. {{{{{{{More VIBES}}}}}}} --Bob
Physically, no thank goodness. There will be much psychological and emotional healing to be done tho.

I didn't see it, I didn't and I failed him.
You did not fail him.

You are there for him now, you are praying, you are crying, you are loving, you did not fail him. He is in some trouble now, and a parent's heart sinks at this news, but you did not fail him.

I promise you, you did not fail him. That's enough of the blame game, now let's find solutions. I recommend continued prayer. I will do my part from here.

Vibing, too.
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#11 Post by JBillyGirl » Thu May 01, 2008 7:57 pm

Oh no! I'm so sorry, Trish. Whatever happened, I truly hope things turn out as well as they possibly can. In the meantime, many hugs and prayers to you and your son.
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#12 Post by T_Bone0806 » Thu May 01, 2008 7:58 pm

Stay strong. We're rooting for you.
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#13 Post by kusch » Thu May 01, 2008 8:09 pm

All the best to you going forward.
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#14 Post by BackInTex » Thu May 01, 2008 8:17 pm

Really really sorry to hear this. No more vibes. Prayers will be said.
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#15 Post by silvercamaro » Thu May 01, 2008 8:23 pm

Trish, you have my fervent hopes for the best possible long-term outcome, whatever circumstances have presented themselves to you today.

More hugs are headed to you.
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#16 Post by Beebs52 » Thu May 01, 2008 8:25 pm

PMing vibishness if it ever goes through.
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#17 Post by Bob Juch » Thu May 01, 2008 9:08 pm

I hope things go in your favor.
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#18 Post by kayrharris » Thu May 01, 2008 9:12 pm

It's just a parent's nature to blame themselves when things go wrong. Don't be too hard on yourself.

We're all here for you. Stay strong. I can't imagine how hard this must be for you. All the good vibes, prayers, thoughts and whatever else I can muster up will continue until things are better.
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#19 Post by littlebeast13 » Thu May 01, 2008 9:32 pm

Ack!

I'm not good at this, but here's hoping things will work out for both of you.....

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#20 Post by Appa23 » Thu May 01, 2008 10:21 pm

I'm sorry to hear about James' troubles again with the law. I will think back on my years doing juvenile court hearings and send the vibes your way.

Although I do not know the facts, I would not presume that that he is going to end up in a residential program for serious offenders. Hopefully, it is just a situation that will scare him onto the straight and narrow.
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#21 Post by SportsFan68 » Thu May 01, 2008 10:22 pm

Sending all best wishes and good luck for young James ...
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#22 Post by ontellen » Thu May 01, 2008 10:38 pm

There is absolutely no doubt in anyone's mind on this bored that you love James and truly devote your life to him.

I hope he gets the help he needs and we are here for you, anytime.

Hang in there, Trish.

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#23 Post by Ritterskoop » Fri May 02, 2008 12:18 am

Sorry to hear this but maybe it will work out well for him and for you. Best wishes.
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#24 Post by TheConfessor » Fri May 02, 2008 12:20 am

Best wishes in getting past this incident. I hope there will soon be better days for all involved.
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#25 Post by mrkelley23 » Fri May 02, 2008 4:26 am

I'm so sorry, Saucy.

The love you have for James nearly yells from the screen every time I read one of your posts. That kind of love can conquer lots of stuff.

Prayers and hugs.
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