Why I roll my eyes at the folks who complain about their "struggles". Why I believe success (or lack of it) is grounded in culture, how a person is raised, not how they are "offered or denied opportunity". At least in this country. The opportunities are there for everyone. Some have a longer and more difficult trek (e.g. Anh Reiss, Ben Carson) but the goal, if you have one, if you have the desire to do what it takes, there is no better place than this country to live. That is why so many people around the world risk everything to come here. It is the system in place, or was in place, a system that created winners and losers, more winners than anywhere else but also whose losers are better off than the winners everywhere else. And the definition of winning is defined by one's own definition of success. Or a least it used to be. The media, the entertainment industry, has defined winning at such a high level, most winners think they are losers and are unhappy with their lot. It is sad to see so many unhappy people, thinking they are struggling, thinking they've lost, when in fact they have won.
Houston doctor who gave life to thousands dies at 48
Anh Reiss was a Houston doctor whose passion - almost a religion - was obstetrics. She brought more than 7,000 babies into the world. She felt honored and privileged to be the first face those infants saw
Reiss, 48, died of leukemia Feb. 26. After her diagnosis of myelodysplastic syndrome, or MDS, in 2009, she became the face of patients in need of bone marrow transplants.
She never found a match herself, which was her only hope of a cure. But she and her family may have doubled the number of Vietnamese bone marrow donors nationwide, and they helped connect some donors and recipients who did match.
Anh Phuong Nguyen Reiss was born in Vietnam. She was about 6 when her devout family sent her to live with Catholic sisters; her mom and dad thought she might make a good nun. Anh was back home just a week later; the sisters judged her too noisy.
Anh was 8 when she and her family escaped Vietnam in the midst of the Communist takeover in 1975. The first leg of their journey involved a helicopter filled with so many people it could barely take off. That was only the beginning of decades of struggle.