I wanted to thank you all for the prayers & positive vibeage…it definitely works!
1.FIL’s surgeon came to see him, and explained what is going on with his healing process.
2.He is now out of intensive care, and doing better.
3.fwh, has spoken with all the doctors to be sure that he is getting all his prescribed medication.
4.Working on getting the Medical Power of Attorney.
Bad news… MIL & SIL had big knock down drag out fight. MIL wants FIL (once released) to go back to the rehab that he was in. His doctors will be able to visit (and will), and he will be closer to family. Therefore, they are paying $100/day to hold his room in the rehab facility. Hmmm so far = $400.
SIL wants Dad to go to the place he went to when he had stenosis surgery 4 years ago. It’s in Fullerton, and his doctors will NOT visit him there. Reason = cheaper! Ah, if it means getting better care vs. saving money…ah, I think it’s a no brainer when you are an 85 year old person trying NOT to be a statistic!
FWH wants Dad in the most recent rehab and agrees with Mom. There is too much miscommunication from SIL to MIL, and underlying anger. SIL called and left a message at 10:30 am Saturday for MIL. FWH & MIL left at 10:00 am, stopped by briefly, then didn’t get home til later in the evening. Therefore, not receiving SIL’s message.
SIL thought they were blowing her off. She still doesn’t get it! They were doing stuff for FIL & MIL. She should be thrilled that MIL was out-of the-house and actively “doing” stuff to move forward. My MIL has a bad habit of NOT being on time, and NOT leaving the house til 4:00 pm in the afternoon…by then the day is gone! This is habitual, and believe me, I have come up with creative ways around this!
fuzzy
