I don't know if I could answer that because I did leave my pro-choice views behind. My outlook on the abortion issue is just part of my growth.danielh41 wrote:frogman042 wrote:Like me ask this and I hope it is not unfair to ask - although I don't know in all honesty if you can truly answer it (I don't mean that a slight, I mean that I'm not sure it is a fair question that anyone could truly answer - somethings just can't be broken out and still remain intact).danielh41 wrote:I certainly never claimed to be a better person than anyone else. I only claimed that I was a becoming a better person than I was before. If anyone took that to mean that I claimed to be better person than someone who claimed to be pro-choice, then I apologize.
I only meant to detail my personal journey from pro-choice/ambivalent to pro-life.
If your personal journey that you underwent went exactly the same with the exception that you didn't leave your pro-choice stance - for example you might still personally oppose abortion but still recognize that it would be up to each female to control what is done to their own body - would you still consider yourself a better person then before you embarked on your journey?
I hope this question isn't too personal and it is not meant to be antigonistic, I'm just trying to get a handle on if you think you can ever reconcile you beliefs with one that allows choice for others and if you think that holding the belief that others can be pro-choice would for you make you feel you were not as good a person or not?
I personally tend to try to look at these types of belief systems as one where I could be wrong, think about what it would take to convince me to be wrong and look for that evidence as opposed to looking only for evidence that confirms my beliefs. For me this is a win-win approach, if I look to disprove my beliefs and find it hard to do that, I feel that it adds just a little more validation to them, and if I do succeed in shaking or disproving my beliefs I feel I've grown and gained new knowledge and insights. I wish that any of these so-called debate/discussion shows on TV where they usually end up yelling over each other started with asking each person - what would it take for them to drop their position and take up the other sides - it would be a better discussion - if they answer, 'Nothing I'm sure I'm right' - then why have a debate/discussion, because IMO, that person has shut himself off from the learning process.
---Jay
I've heard President Bush say that abortion is an issue that good people disagree on. That's certainly the politically correct thing to say.
Let's put it this way: If I saw an relatively helpless old lady being beaten and mugged, would I do something to help her? Absolutely I would. It's the same way with abortion. I think that the wholesale killing of fetuses is wrong. Therefore, I am using my voting power to try to help them. It isn't much, but there it is. I have to follow my own convictions.
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voting is futile.If abortion were illegal, it would be called a C&T like it was pre 1973.
and it is not in the GOP's best interst for it to be illegal.
What have all the GOP presidents done about abortion since 1973?????
nothing
bupkiss
squadouche
yet you still vote for them.
Now I have to question whether I am doing enough. I have never picketed an abortion clinic or tried to block a pregnant woman from entering such a place. In fact, I have generally looked down on people who have done that. But if I feel this strongly about the issue, should I be doing these things?
no.they are worthless.
You should be doing what I said in my previous post.Starting a group to help these women financially and with child care.
You will find much more fulfillment in that than by trying to scare these women into a spontaneous aborion.
put your money where your mouth is
or shut the hell up.