My response to this is this - If you could exchange places with a person of color of the same socio-economic status that you have now, would you? I think that if most Whites were honest with themselves, they would say no. No white person that I know of has ever had to have "The Talk" with their teenage sons. Nearly every Black family I know has.
Nitpicks:
Pick and choose the last and most trivial of Peggy McIntosh's list. How about:
2. If I should need t o move, I can be pretty sure of renting or purchasing housing in an area which I can afford and in which I want to live.
3. I can be pretty sure that my neighbors in such a location will be neutral or pleasant to me.
4. I can go shopping alone most of the time, pretty well assured that I will not be followed or harassed.
5. I can turn on the television or open to the front page of the paper and see people of my race widely represent
6. When I am told about our national heritage or about “civilization,” I am shown that people of my color made it what it is
14. I can do well in a challenging situation without being called a credit to my race.
15. I am never asked to speak for all the people of my racial group.
16. 19. If a traffic cop pulls me over or if the IRS audits my tax return, I can be sure I haven’t been singled out because of my race
22. I can take a job with an affirmative action employer without having co-workers on the job suspect that I got it because of race.
White Privilege is not about making someone feel bad or good. It is about acknowledging the disparity of opportunity in this country and trying to address it.
Having watched all of your recommended videos. I will agree with Bob and the others that there is very little here I haven't heard before; it is just presented in a more palatable manner. There were some things that raised my eyebrows, however. I hope you approached the videos I shared with an equally open mind.
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