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He's my brother. Advanced dementia, in hospice, but not for long.
My sil is a saint, cared for him the last 5 years or so, catheters, agitation, just hard.
Talked to them over the phone while in hospice, and during the 45 minutes or so after, we had 2 doves sit on our neighbors' roof. They flew away when he passed.
That was cool.

I'm so sorry, MsKing. Losing a brother would be one of the saddest things in my life.

Thx, Sprots. It took awhile. He was brilliant and funny, musician, computer guy. Sucked

Oh, you'll like this. He was one of few people I had spirited political discussions with. We totally disagreed but there was no acrimony. Awesome

Sorry to hear that Beebs. I understand too well what your sil and the entire family must have gone through.

My sympathy and condolences to the family.

SSS, I hesitated to post this. But, you are far away from this, tho understand the hard stuff, agitation, etc. Hope this didn't upset you unduly.

I'm sorry for your loss.

Beebs52 wrote: ↑

Fri Jun 30, 2023 7:28 pm

SSS, I hesitated to post this. But, you are far away from this, tho understand the hard stuff, agitation, etc. Hope this didn't upset you unduly.

No, I don't want anyone to censor themselves because of my situation. I see my wife almost every day, so I get first hand reminders of her situation all the time. It's hell to see a bright, lively person like my wife and I'm sure your brother was reduced to a shell of themselves. It's just something you have to live with.

My sympathy and condolences to you and all your family.

So sorry tor you

So sorry tor you

Thx guys!

I'm sorry for your loss. I hope you and your family have many good memories of him to comfort you. --Bob

Thanks