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Although I can't go into details, my son is currently in custody and goes to court in the morning.

There is a good possibility that he will be remanded into a residential program.

God, please pray for us

Oh dear. Vibes are hereby increased exponentially. Stay strong.

a1mamacat wrote:Although I can't go into details, my son is currently in custody and goes to court in the morning.

There is a good possibility that he will be remanded into a residential program.

God, please pray for us

Oh, bummer. I'm praying for all of you.

Oh, boy. Not the boarding school he was hoping for.

{{{{{More hugs, Trish.}}}}}

Sauce, I have no idea what's happened, but know that eventually things will work out. Be strong. Scream and pray.
Vibes and prayers from here.

a1mamacat wrote:Although I can't go into details, my son is currently in custody and goes to court in the morning.

There is a good possibility that he will be remanded into a residential program.

God, please pray for us

I hope no one was hurt. {{{{{{{More VIBES}}}}}}} --Bob

I am very sorry that you are going through this.

Bob78164 wrote:

a1mamacat wrote:Although I can't go into details, my son is currently in custody and goes to court in the morning.

There is a good possibility that he will be remanded into a residential program.

God, please pray for us

I hope no one was hurt. {{{{{{{More VIBES}}}}}}} --Bob

Physically, no thank goodness. There will be much psychological and emotional healing to be done tho.

I didn't see it, I didn't and I failed him.

a1mamacat wrote:

Bob78164 wrote:

a1mamacat wrote:Although I can't go into details, my son is currently in custody and goes to court in the morning.

There is a good possibility that he will be remanded into a residential program.

God, please pray for us

I hope no one was hurt. {{{{{{{More VIBES}}}}}}} --Bob

Physically, no thank goodness. There will be much psychological and emotional healing to be done tho.

I didn't see it, I didn't and I failed him.

Please don't blame yourself. It's probably not appropriate, but even if it were, since you can't change the past it won't do anyone any good. But beating yourself up can make it harder for you to be there for him now, when it's still possible for you to have some effect on events.

I'll have more via PM. --Bob

a1mamacat wrote:

Bob78164 wrote:

a1mamacat wrote:Although I can't go into details, my son is currently in custody and goes to court in the morning.

There is a good possibility that he will be remanded into a residential program.

God, please pray for us

I hope no one was hurt. {{{{{{{More VIBES}}}}}}} --Bob

Physically, no thank goodness. There will be much psychological and emotional healing to be done tho.

I didn't see it, I didn't and I failed him.

You did not fail him.

You are there for him now, you are praying, you are crying, you are loving, you did not fail him. He is in some trouble now, and a parent's heart sinks at this news, but you did not fail him.

I promise you, you did not fail him. That's enough of the blame game, now let's find solutions. I recommend continued prayer. I will do my part from here.

Vibing, too.

Oh no! I'm so sorry, Trish. Whatever happened, I truly hope things turn out as well as they possibly can. In the meantime, many hugs and prayers to you and your son.

Stay strong. We're rooting for you.

All the best to you going forward.

Really really sorry to hear this. No more vibes. Prayers will be said.

Trish, you have my fervent hopes for the best possible long-term outcome, whatever circumstances have presented themselves to you today.

More hugs are headed to you.

PMing vibishness if it ever goes through.

I hope things go in your favor.

It's just a parent's nature to blame themselves when things go wrong. Don't be too hard on yourself.

We're all here for you. Stay strong. I can't imagine how hard this must be for you. All the good vibes, prayers, thoughts and whatever else I can muster up will continue until things are better.

Ack!

I'm not good at this, but here's hoping things will work out for both of you.....

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I'm sorry to hear about James' troubles again with the law. I will think back on my years doing juvenile court hearings and send the vibes your way.

Although I do not know the facts, I would not presume that that he is going to end up in a residential program for serious offenders. Hopefully, it is just a situation that will scare him onto the straight and narrow.

Sending all best wishes and good luck for young James ...

There is absolutely no doubt in anyone's mind on this bored that you love James and truly devote your life to him.

I hope he gets the help he needs and we are here for you, anytime.

Hang in there, Trish.

Love, Mom

Sorry to hear this but maybe it will work out well for him and for you. Best wishes.

Best wishes in getting past this incident. I hope there will soon be better days for all involved.

I'm so sorry, Saucy.

The love you have for James nearly yells from the screen every time I read one of your posts. That kind of love can conquer lots of stuff.

Prayers and hugs.