Wedding Blog: BD**2 - 176

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gsabc · #1 Post by **gsabc** » Sat Feb 16, 2008 2:41 pm

BD has annoyance with one of her bridesmaids. She has yet to send her measurements to order her dress, despite numerous requests on BD's part and assurances on bridesmaid's part. Given that we are not being told that delivery time is 5 months, and not the 3-4 we were originally quoted, this brings the delivery pretty close to the time limit. BD is not happy with this friend.

I have annoyance with either PayPal or eBay buyer. Got a notice from PayPal that they have chosen to investigate one of my transactions. Nice of them to tell me today (Saturday) not to send the items, since the transaction was LAST SUNDAY and I sent it out Monday. I'm supposed to respond, but there's no method of doing so on their "resolution center" page, or at least none I can find. I sent a query via their e-mail customer service. Since it's a holiday weekend, I'm not expecting a response till next week. Buyer has also not picked up the item at the PO yet, so it's possible that I won't lose out here, other than the aggravation.

GW has annoyance with our cats, one of whom kept jumping on her in the middle of the night, and the other of whom kept trying to crowd her out of bed. GW is tired and a bit cranky.

peacock2121 · #2 Post by **peacock2121** » Sat Feb 16, 2008 4:35 pm

At least the entire family is annoyed at the same time. Having only one annoyed would be annoying to the non-annoyed.

I am using my years of experience to think that the bridesmaid is not really sure she wants to go through the expense and the expectations that go along with being a bridesmaid and she doesn't know how to say that to BD.