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Not a good month to be a Bored Buddy.

My stepfather walked out on my mother. He left her for another woman. Some girl he works with at Wal-Mart.

<BillyCrystal> "Slut! She's a slut! Look at her--slut!" </BC>

My mother and stepfather would've celebrated their 20th wedding anniversary in April 2008. They've had problems before, but have always managed to work them out. This is a totally different breed of animal, though. As a result, I'm gonna be forced to move back in with my mother to help her with bills so that she won't lose the house, the 5 acres of land, her car, or anything else.

I hate to use the word "fear", but my initial fear here is that this will put a damper on my relationship with my girlfriend, April, and any future plans that we might have.

Oy.





Maybe beast can give us some inside stories on the sluts at Wal-Mart.

Wow, I'm very sorry.

April is an understanding woman, I just know it.

Good luck! Kay

NellyLunatic1980 wrote:Not a good month to be a Bored Buddy.

My stepfather walked out on my mother. He left her for another woman. Some girl he works with at Wal-Mart.

<BillyCrystal> "Slut! She's a slut! Look at her--slut!" </BC>

My mother and stepfather would've celebrated their 20th wedding anniversary in April 2008. They've had problems before, but have always managed to work them out. This is a totally different breed of animal, though. As a result, I'm gonna be forced to move back in with my mother to help her with bills so that she won't lose the house, the 5 acres of land, her car, or anything else.

I hate to use the word "fear", but my initial fear here is that this will put a damper on my relationship with my girlfriend, April, and any future plans that we might have.

That sucks!

It's good that you are moving back into your mom's house to help her with bills. Is there any way that your step-father and the whore will be able to take the house away from your mom? I think that your mom should see a lawyer.

MarleysGh0st wrote:Maybe beast can give us some inside stories on the sluts at Wal-Mart.

We've had a few sluts, but when it comes to playing around, nobody can top my partner in the Paper Goods department. I could run off a list of 15-20 women on our shift alone over the past 8 years that he has dated (Many of who would be the aforementioned sluts)... and he's been married to his current (naive) wife for 10 years now...

lb13

littlebeast13 wrote:

MarleysGh0st wrote:Maybe beast can give us some inside stories on the sluts at Wal-Mart.

We've had a few sluts, but when it comes to playing around, nobody can top my partner in the Paper Goods department. I could run off a list of 15-20 women on our shift alone over the past 8 years that he has dated (Many of who would be the aforementioned sluts)... and he's been married to his current (naive) wife for 10 years now...

lb13

I assume that the 15-20 sluts, er, women know that he is married.

Oh, Nelly --

Such lousy news around the holidays. I'm gla you'll be able to help her out and, like Kay, I am sure that April is a very understanding woman.

After all, you are not a jerk. And that is at least one of the differences here.

PlacentiaSoccerMom wrote:It's good that you are moving back into your mom's house to help her with bills. Is there any way that your step-father and the whore will be able to take the house away from your mom?

The house is not in either one of their names. It's in my name as well as my biological father's name.

That's so creepy. I've been on the wrong end of a similar deal to your mother, not 20 years into it though, much less. It's hard to see any good in this right now; my wish for your mother and for you is that there is a silver lining in this somewhere.

NellyLunatic1980 wrote:

PlacentiaSoccerMom wrote:It's good that you are moving back into your mom's house to help her with bills. Is there any way that your step-father and the whore will be able to take the house away from your mom?

The house is not in either one of their names. It's in my name as well as my biological father's name.

That's good. I was worried that your mother might lose her house in addition to her husband.

I am sorry for your mom's pain.

I am happy that she has a son who will trun his life on it's ear to help her. If your girlfriend doesn't admire you for that..... well....... really.

Nelly,

Kudos to you for placing your Mom's needs so high on the agenda.

If anything, it should make a true girlfriend see you for what you are, and value you even more highly.

If not, she wasn't worth the effort in the first place.

Just make sure your efforts are to find a way to make your Mom self-sufficient, and not just transferring everything onto your shoulders.

Good luck.

I'm sorry, Nelly. May the difficulties and snags be smoothed down soon.

I think that you should change the locks on the house, just in case the slut gets sick of your step-dad and he wants to move back in.

Mikey and I said the same thing about your girlfriend.

That means it has to be true.

Geez Louise!

Nelly, you are to be highly commended, and I am sure that your ladyfriend will look at the situation and think"Wow, what a great guy. What responsibility and honour. He's gotta be a keeper"


Hugs!!!!!

Nelly- it's great for you to be there for your mom. If April is worth keeping in your life, she'll realize what it says about the kind of man you are, that you don't hesitate to step in and help. Bless you.

t.

peacock2121 wrote:I am sorry for your mom's pain.

I am happy that she has a son who will trun his life on it's ear to help her. If your girlfriend doesn't admire you for that..... well....... really.

I 100% agree with Pea. You are awesome for helping her out.

Very very terrible for your Mom.

Here's hoping April will be smart enough to hang in there for you.

Best of luck to you and your family!

NellyLunatic1980 wrote:Not a good month to be a Bored Buddy.

I hate to use the word "fear", but my initial fear here is that this will put a damper on my relationship with my girlfriend, April, and any future plans that we might have.

nelly...do not let that come between you and your gf!

I hope that things get better for you all!

fuzzy

Don't let it get to you and don't let it get between you and your girlfriend. Most important is to be there for whatever support your mother needs.

I hope the best for your mother. My wife's first husband walked out on her for a woman he worked with after 17 years of marriage and two kids. Three years later, she wound up with me, which may or may not have been a blessing, depending how you look at it, but 23 years later, we're still going strong.

Our best wishes for you and your mother.

What a lousy thing to have happen. My heart goes out to you and your mother, and I commend you for shouldering what must be a heavy burden at a hard time.

I will concur with the others and hope that your girlfriend will see the best in you as you make big sacrifices to help your mother. If she can't handle it, then maybe it wasn't meant to be. I hope everything works out as well as possible.