
We just went with the Liberty Bell stamps. It gets them there. The invitations themselves were appropriate - the Disney Princesses. If you knew BD, you'd understand the significance. She and her MoH are Disney fanatics. We send the WDW people a warning whenever the two of them plan a trip there. I've taught her well.

We invited basically all the women who will be invited to the wedding (including female children), but there's a reason. GW included a blank recipe card with the invitations. She requested that even if they don't attend the shower, they should send back a favorite recipe, or better yet, one of the traditional family recipes that shows up at Thanksgivings and the like. FSIL will eat well, assuming BD can convince him to try things other than plain meat and potatoes.